The Daddy Tag Challenge

Ahhh the Daddy Tag Challenge! I’ve yet to be nominated for the Mummy Tag Challenge – I’m clearly clamboring for a nomination here! – so I decided to jump on the bandwagon and nominate Papa Bear for #TheDaddyTag! A clever challenge issued by the very wonderful Frenchie Mummy. I was tempted to do as Frenchie said and make the answers up for B but he was very happy to oblige and take part. Check out his answers to the Daddy Tag Challenge. Of course I couldn’t help but add my own little tid-bit too!

Are you a Stay at Home Daddy or a Working Daddy?

Working. The glamour of architectural hardware sales keeps me grounded.

B is ridiculously good at his job and has worked with the same company for 16 years. 

Would you have it any other way?

Yes, for sure. But picking six correct numbers is very, very hard. If I could, I would spend all the time I have with A. Although, let’s be reasonable, little things like sleep get in the way.

Working full time with a young, impressionable and ever changing toddler has serious downsides. Missing those changes is heartbreaking. B is an incredible Dad and he misses those moments just as I do.

Do you co-change dirty nappies? Even the very smelly ones!

Yep. One thing I miss oddly. The last nappy felt like the first step away from A needing us as much and gaining independence.

B changed just as many dirty nappies as I did. He did just as many night feeds and does more than his fair share of night wakings. Have I said how awesome he is

A little fairy gives you the possibility of breastfeeding? Are you going for it or do you run away?

Run away. I am kinda hairy and the chaffage would kill me. I can be a little O.C.D. as well and would hate one nipple to be favoured in case the other got upset.

Hah! Hairy OCD πŸ™‚ he’s my cuddly bear πŸ™‚

What is the one must-have item for a daddy?

A good bag. One that fits food, clothes, nappies, toys etc. It will be your go to for so many situations. Also, as a nonphysical item, I would say patience. Remember ,it might take ages to do something you could do in two minutes, tantrums can be annoying and tedious but a toddler is only learning. They can get frustrated but can’t express it like you or me.

Hmm wise words Papa Bear, I agree.

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How many kids do you plan on having?

I’m not sure but I’ll be honest, a house full scares me, so it’s possible I’ll end up running with scissors minus a cup.

A house full!? Eck pass me the scissors!!

Lads’ nights? How often do you have them?

Never. I don’t drink and hate all that to be honest. I am a gamer and a night out for me involves busting heads in Tokyo online.

B has been a gamer since I met him and I love it! He plays games that aren’t as main stream as the norm like Japanese RPGs and Hack and Slash games – although he is partial to FIFA and starting as the underdog.

Your children’s favourite achievement?

Hard one this: Either dancing and reciting the lines to “Doll on a music box” from Chitty Chitty Bang Bang or making pizza with us.

Pizza has become a weekly tradition now it seems. The clean up takes longer than anything else but A has gotten pretty good with that roller. 

What is your best memory with your kid(s)?

So many! It’s hard to pick. It’s small things like getting ice cream with her or having her run towards me in a park. But I used to love in the depths of winter, when it was dark and silent, A was a small baby and would fall asleep in my arms. It was a lovely calm silence, just me and her. She was so comfortable and I would watch her breathe, her little chest rising up and down. It is something that I will never forget.

*** Heart Melt ***

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Name one thing you miss since being a daddy?

Sitting down to read a magazine while having a lazy Saturday, Soccer Saturday on in the background… Unbelievable Jeff!

I miss those those days too. I used to nap to Jeff Stellings voice. Although, I often wonder what we did all day long!

Weight gain, before pregnancy, during, after and now? And we mean YOU DADDY, not the mummy!

Ummm – a little after I think. I was all over the place after A was born – happy, upset, happy, upset – my emotions were hay wire! Through all of that and severe exhausation, I guess I comfort ate a lot in those first months. Ben and Jerry are no longer allowed to randomly show up without calling ahead first!

Oh thanks for reminding me – *** scrawls Phish Food on the shopping list ***

Dream holiday with your kids?

A big shopping trip to Berlin during the Christmas season. Wandering around the Christmas Markets in the snow with a hot chocolate in our hands. Spending hours in KaDeWe Department Store, finding our way to AlexanderPlatz and spending way more money than we have!

Oh yes please! That will most definitely happen one day and I can’t wait too! 

Dream holiday without your kids or even without the other half? (You’re allowed to dream)

Trip in Japan to experience Japanese sub culture, heritage, history and of course games. I will probably need a genie teach me the language – Can be any mystic creature I am not endorsing Genie’s. Geraldine is more than welcome to join me but no lists. I would own this trip.

Fair enough. I do like to make lists when we go on holiday so that we make the most of our days. Thanks for the invite B!  

How has your life changed since having kids?

I guess married and work life have changed quite a lot. Sometimes, it feels like being underwater and like a weird fake existence. You have to let go of the old way and embrace the new one. It’s harder to have time for your relationship as young kids take up so much time and energy.

You said it B. Everything changes and drastically too. It’s hard but making time for each other has been so important.

Finish the sentence β€œIt makes my heart melt when…”

I look at photos of my daughter and see how much older she has gotten. It is bittersweet though. She was so small and happy and although her world is tiny she is happy. But we have to let her grow and you can’t bubble wrap them forever even though you really want to.

*** tears *** Bittersweet most certainly is the world. Watching her grow is exciting but missing those baby days is very emotional. 

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Gaming with Daddy! Gamer in training I reckon πŸ™‚

Favourite beers brands and football team?

No beer – I don’t drink. I’m an Assam tea man, with Mocha coffee and Cola Cola thrown in for good measure.

West Ham Utd

B makes a mean cup of tea! 

Huggies or Pampers?

Pampers

Never even thought to try anything else to be honest. 

Have you always wanted kids?

No. I was dead set against them for years and one day, Boom, it hit me in a shopping centre. That was it, there was no changing my mind. That day I saw a mother calling to her son from about five feet away. She was gesturing for his hand but he was looking behind him and walking at a snails pace with tiny steps. “Come on,” she said. No answer. “We have to hurry,” she said. No answer. Finally she said to him, “We have to get Daddy his Christmas present,” and he ran towards her so happy at the prospect.  It was then that I knew I wanted that in my life. This year A will be old enough to shop with me for Geraldine present. I’m looking forward to doing that together.

And we’re so thankful that you saw that mother and her son. Isn’t it incredible how something so small can have such a huge influence on your life

Best part of being a dad?

Just seeing her in the morning come into our room to give us a huge cuddle. simple moments like that remind me that I was right that day in the shopping centre – even if I did forget the bread.

I think we can forgive forgetting the bread.

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 On to the nominations:

Of course there are rules to the #TheDaddyTag. Check out how to participate here

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32 thoughts on “The Daddy Tag Challenge

  • August 4, 2016 at 9:18 am
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    Thank you so much for taking part! I would have loved seeing your version, Geraldine. Reckon it could have been well fun. Now for B’s answers… Patience is indeed a serious quality to have with babies/ toddlers. I love this pic with Baby in the start trek bag! I think I already told you, right? OMG I love the Phish Food flavour too! A shame domino Pizza don’t have it on their menu anymore…Lovely pictures. It’s obvious he is a very good daddy. You’re a lucky woman for sure. You make a great family. Lovely post. #thedaddytag

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    • August 4, 2016 at 9:25 am
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      Ah thanks Frenchie, yes I am a very lucky woman! I love watching the two of them together. A is the image of B in looks and personality. They have each other exhausted by the end of the day from playing together so much. They’re best friends! #thedaddytag

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      • August 6, 2016 at 11:13 pm
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        That’s wonderful! That’s what it’s all about to have kiddies… Thanks for sharing with such a cool linky like #KCACOLS
        Do you plan on having more kids?

        #KCACOLS

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  • August 5, 2016 at 10:29 pm
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    Fair play B, great answers in there man! I just completed the challenge also and thought it was really cool. Good to read another dad’s post and get their perspective.
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    • August 5, 2016 at 10:42 pm
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      Thanks Ross, it wasn’t too hard to twist his arm and take part. A is his favourite topic of conversation πŸ™‚

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  • August 6, 2016 at 11:39 am
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    Oh such great answers. He also has very sophisticated tastes – assam tea! Very fancy πŸ˜‰ Thanks for linking up with #FridayFrolics

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    • August 6, 2016 at 11:08 pm
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      Yep, he hates the taste of a regular cup of tea these days… uber posh haha I’ll take any old tea once I don’t have to make it

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  • August 6, 2016 at 7:58 pm
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    Ahhh. I still get a little weepy at the sight of my husband playing with our boys, just as I used to when they were newborns in his arms. Bloody hormones! Thanks for linking up to #FridayFrolics

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    • August 6, 2016 at 11:10 pm
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      Hormones sure are a pain. I was welling up watching the two of them playing again today. Reckon I’ll be like that for a long time to come

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  • August 6, 2016 at 10:43 pm
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    Aww yay for the daddy tag. I’ve done the mum one, and love the idea of dads doing one too. My partner is a gamer too, although he doesn’t play as much as he used to. We love making pizza together too, it’s definitely messy but fun.x #kcacols
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    • August 6, 2016 at 11:11 pm
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      B doesn’t play as much as he used to either. Life changes I suppose. But we make sure that we make time for our hobbies and each other on the evenings.

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  • August 6, 2016 at 11:04 pm
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    This is a fab series! I love the concurrent answers. The one about nipples feeling left out made me chuckle πŸ™‚ #KCACOLS

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    • August 6, 2016 at 11:13 pm
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      I love this series too, it’s great fun! I wasn’t too sure where he was going with the nipples at first haha πŸ™‚

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  • August 7, 2016 at 3:20 pm
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    This is great – what a lovely story about how he came to decide he would like children. cute photos too! I’d love to do this with my husband and see what he has to say about it all! Thanks so much for linking up at #KCACOLS. Hope you come back again next Sunday

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    • August 7, 2016 at 10:31 pm
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      I remember when B first told me that story years ago. I welled up instantly and knew he would be an amazing dad!

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  • August 7, 2016 at 8:32 pm
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    Aww so sweet. Love the way you decided children were a good idea πŸ˜‚ #KCACOLS

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  • August 8, 2016 at 12:44 pm
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    awww what a fab dad! we did the dad challenge too and some of B’s answers are similar to my hubby’s answers. he is a gamer too πŸ™‚ and he has always done his fair share of nights, nappies and what nots πŸ™‚ #KCACOLS

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  • August 8, 2016 at 9:40 pm
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    That is so sweet about the lady in the supermarket! Its funny the little things that can change your mind. My OH is currently no cooperating in doing the Daddy tag so I may find myself making up his answers like Frenchie said! #kcacols
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  • August 11, 2016 at 10:30 am
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    I love that story of the moment he realised he wanted to be a Dad! I always wanted to be a Mum, since I was a little girl apparently, so I love hearing how other people came to the decision to start a family, whether they always wanted it or if it just hit them one day! x #KCACOLS
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    • August 12, 2016 at 2:23 pm
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      when we met we were 17/20 and married at 22/25. We were so young and really hadn’t properly thought it thru. I wanted kids first but B wasn’t sure at all. I’m so thankful for that day he realised he wanted a family… he didn’t tell me for months later!

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  • August 11, 2016 at 2:10 pm
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    Aww lovely! I agree about the German Christmas markets – that would be fun. Love the brestfeeding concerns – they do always favour one side! The struggle is real!

    Thanks so much for joining us on #FridayFrolics. Hope to see you next time!

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    • August 12, 2016 at 2:25 pm
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      Hopefully some day we’ll get to go back. We used to go to berlin one or two times a year. Really miss it

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  • May 10, 2017 at 2:13 pm
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    Love this. B sounds like a legend. Would you be interested in guest posting for me for Father’s day? I am taking guest posts about Super Dad’s. Email me if you are interested and I will send you a brief. Thanks,
    James

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