In Conversation With: Shinners and the Brood

Shinners and the Brood

One of my new blogger buds is Sinead who writes a brilliant blog at Shinners and the Brood. Sinead is such a lovely person who started her blog in September 2016. With three little ones, she has plenty to spur her on in this blogging journey. Sinead has taken on my questions and joined me for this weeks In Conversation With. Check out her nuggets of parenting wisdown and remember to check out her blog and follow her on facebook and twitter!

Did you enjoy being pregnant?

I really enjoyed being pregnant the first time around. The second and third time, not so much. I felt tired. I looked tired. I was neither radiant nor glowing! I think pregnancies get progressively more difficult because the demands on you are increasing all the time. With your first pregnancy, taking care of yourself is your number one priority but obviously when you have other kids in the mix, as you well know, that changes and you are trying to juggle staying awake with changing nappies, coordinating play-dates, cooking meals, working, etc. I guess it didn’t help that I was older each time too!  It’s a lot easier to indulge yourself and enjoy the first pregnancy, isn’t it?

What was the hardest part about being pregnant?

The overwhelming tiredness is what I remember most. And the heartburn. Man, the heartburn! Like many mums, I don’t think I really knew what it was until I was pregnant. I would get very anxious coming to the end of a bottle of Gaviscon (it had to be liquid – the tablets didn’t even put a dent in it) and I even remember sending my poor other half out at around 11pm one night to find a chemist in the city for fear that the remainder of my bottle wouldn’t see me through the night. Pregnancy definitely brought out my inner drama queen!

What’s the one thing you would have done differently as a parent? 

I think I would have read less baby books with my first and listened to my own instincts more. When you have your first child, everyone has all sorts of advice and recommendations for you, don’t they? People tell you to do this and do that. I probably became a little too hung up on routine with my first. I was consulting books that were telling me when my baby should be eating and sleeping.  I think I felt that I needed some sort of manual, which of course, in reality, doesn’t exist. When I think about it now, I realise that I wasted a lot of effort and headspace on it. With my second and third babies, I had learned to trust my own gut and more importantly, my baby. I think I had become a little more intuitive and confident so we went with the flow, we had no routine whatsoever but life was so much easier and everyone was happier. ‘Read the baby, not the book’ was probably the best piece of advice I got.

Shinners and the Brood
Remember to check out Sinead’s awesome Blog at www.shinnersandthebrood.com

What is the one thing you never had that you want for your kids?

To be honest, we were very lucky growing up. There wasn’t much that we wanted and didn’t get. It’s not that we were spoiled, I just think we were easily pleased! Though I did always want one of those Mr Frosty slush puppie makers and I never got my hands on one! Clearly my folks had the good sense to recognise how badly that would turn out for our yellow velvet couch back in 1987.

I always loved the sound of a camping holiday as a kid but we never went. With our own kids we have had two camping holidays in Italy and Spain so far and we are total converts. We’ll go on another one this year. European campsites really are fantastic and they tick all the boxes for a family holiday.

What do you miss about your life before you had kids?

I miss sleep. I really miss sleep. And obviously I miss the freedom of just flying by the seat of your pants. Like every other parent on the planet, we had no appreciation for our freedom pre-kids and totally took it for granted. You don’t really have any concept of the responsibility involved in being a parent until you are there, in the thick of it. How could you really, I guess? But the time is flying and before we know it they won’t need us the way they do now and so I remind myself all the time to stop and smell the roses. The next phase will obviously bring on a whole new set of challenges but at least we will be able to have a lie-in and hair-cut in peace!

Shinners and the Brood

What is the best thing about being a parent?

That’s a hard one. I think it’s the love. That sounds completely cheesy but it’s the love you feel, the love you give, the love you receive. It’s the feeling of being a little family unit against the world. It is so completely life-changing but in the best possible way.

What advice would you give your younger self?

We had our first child exactly a year after getting married so looking back, our honeymoon was our last big long-haul holiday. It seems like ages ago now. While we did get to travel a bit, I would definitely like to have seen some other countries and places that we probably won’t visit now until the kids are much older. So I would tell myself to travel more and make use of my months off in the summer! I spent a lot of summers just lolling around the Spanish Arch when I probably should have been off back-packing somewhere!

You’re in the store with a full cart and your baby starts crying frantically…what do you do?

What can you do? Carry on regardless! Go through the catalogue of soothing responses that have been known to work in the past. Accept the kind, understanding smiles of the other parents in the queue who have been there. Smile inwardly when the young, childless person rolls her eyes at the wailing knowing that some day, it will be her! 😉


Many thanks to Sinead for joining me on In Conversation With and sharing her thoughts and parenting experiences with us 🙂

You can find Sinead at her Blog, Shinners and the Brood, on Twitter, Facebook, Pinterest and Instagram

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  1. I love this series, I wish I had travelled more pre-baby as well. We were so focussed on saving money we didn’t enjoy it as much as we should have! #fortheloveofBLOG

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